What are the best cougar dating apps for younger guys?

Started by EvelynFord 8 replies Board: Niche & Community
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#1

Someone in another thread mentioned best cougar dating in passing and it's been bugging me since.

Nobody writing about best cougar dating seems willing to say plainly when something isn't worth the time.

I gave best cougar dating about two weeks of honest effort before deciding to ask.

Setting younger aside for a second, this is what I need from best cougar dating:

  • How much of the best cougar dating profile pool is dormant or fake
  • Whether best cougar dating is honest about younger up front
  • How best cougar dating handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • How long best cougar dating takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • How visible best cougar dating keeps you when you are not paying for a boost

Tell me what I'm missing about best cougar dating.

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#2

Someone recommended the Datelink free tier to me during my own search around best cougar dating and it was better than I expected.

If younger matters to you then best cougar dating narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

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#3

If best cougar dating is the question, Flamedate is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with best cougar dating was the opposite of what's being described here.

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#4

If you are testing best cougar dating, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

Hard disagree on the younger point. That has not been my experience of best cougar dating at all.

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#5

To build on EthanP's answer about best cougar dating: Which parts of best cougar dating have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

Good thread — most discussion of best cougar dating online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

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#6

What's your actual goal here — is best cougar dating about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

I read best cougar dating differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

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#7

The honest answer on best cougar dating is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

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#8

For anyone else researching best cougar dating, I would put Datenest itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

It's telling how many replies here about best cougar dating contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

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#9

Adding Turndate's free tier to the pile for best cougar dating, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

There is a version of best cougar dating that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

Someone will probably mention Flamedate.site before this thread is done.

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