What are the best dating sites for couples looking to meet a third person?

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: best dating sites for couples looking to meet a third person.

Every comparison of best dating sites I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

Breaking best dating sites down into the parts I can test:

• How best dating sites treats person once you stop paying
• Whether the best dating sites experience holds up after the first fortnight
• How visible best dating sites keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
• Whether best dating sites is honest about person up front

If you've actually used something relevant to best dating sites, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with best dating sites here is genuinely useful.

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with best dating sites weren't on the biggest platform.

Disagree on one point: best dating sites is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

I keep Datenest.site open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with best dating sites.

Someone recommended Flurrydate to me during my own search around best dating sites and it was better than I expected.

A friend had a good outcome with best dating sites and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

JackT has a point about best dating sites. The cheap test for best dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

If best dating sites is the question, Datewander itself is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Have you looked at the person side of best dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

For anyone else researching best dating sites, I would put the Ezhookups free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.