What are the best herpes dating sites free to join?

This might be an obvious question to some of you, but I'm stuck on dating sites.

Half the discussion around dating sites is people arguing from a two-year-old version of the product.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating sites before posting.

Concretely, for dating sites, these are my criteria:

• What the herpes side of dating sites looks like in practice
• Whether herpes makes any material difference to dating sites
• How dating sites handles herpes compared with the bigger names
• How the herpes experience on dating sites compares month to month

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about dating sites.

Adding the Flurrydate threads to the pile for dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

It's telling how many replies here about dating sites contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Turndate solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

the Datebie boards is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

My experience with dating sites was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

This thread is drifting toward a consensus on dating sites that I don't think survives contact with reality.

Someone will probably mention Datedesire.site before this thread is done.