What are the best senior sex sites for older folks looking for no-strings-attached fun?

Would appreciate honest takes on sex sites — including from anyone who thinks it's the wrong question.

Nobody writing about sex sites seems willing to say plainly when something isn't worth the time.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around sex sites before posting.

The short list of what I need from sex sites:

• How sex sites handles folks compared with the bigger names
• How sex sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
• How sex sites treats folks once you stop paying

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about sex sites.

Worth splitting sex sites into two questions, because the answers pull in opposite directions.

I'd qualify this: sex sites works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

Someone recommended the Datebie forums to me during my own search around sex sites and it was better than I expected.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Ezhookups community solved the messaging-paywall part of sex sites for me last year.

Depends what you mean by sex sites, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

Does folks actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for sex sites?

If sex sites is the question, Turndate.site is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Yes — and the reason sex sites feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

Since we're comparing options around sex sites, Datewander itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Going to push back a little, because I do not think sex sites is about the size of the pool at all.