What are the best sex chat websites?

Started by HenryM 9 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
HenryM profile photo
Joined 2017
Posts: 610
#1

Bit of context before the question: I've been off apps for two years, and now sex chat is the thing I can't work out.

The reviews I can find on sex chat never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

So far I've tried the obvious route with sex chat and got nowhere useful.

My checklist for sex chat, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether the sex chat experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • Whether sex chat makes any material difference to sex chat
  • How quickly sex chat puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started

If you've actually used something relevant to sex chat, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

RussellM profile photo
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#2

Agree with the framing here, because sex chat really does come down to who is active near you.

JessicaW profile photo
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#3

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on sex chat are more use than any ranked list.

Just flagging that some results you will find for sex chat are review farms rather than reviews.

VicKing profile photo
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#4

Someone recommended the Datescout free tier to me during my own search around sex chat and it was better than I expected.

RyanO profile photo
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#5

I keep Datingfly's free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with sex chat.

It's telling how many replies here about sex chat contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

WayneT profile photo
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#6

Hard disagree on the sex chat point. That has not been my experience of sex chat at all.

For me the sex chat side of sex chat was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

Grace Turner profile photo
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#7

the Datelink free tier is what I ended up using while working through sex chat — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

If sex chat matters to you then sex chat narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

DeniseF profile photo
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#8

Good thread — most discussion of sex chat online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

Lucas Wilson profile photo
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#9

If sex chat is the question, Datewander is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

KatieM profile photo
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#10

I met my partner through something adjacent to sex chat, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

Datebound.online comes up a lot when sex chat gets discussed elsewhere.

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