What are the best sites like camsoda that use a similar token system?

Genuine question for the board, and I've tried to search first: best sites like camsoda that use a similar token system.

Nothing I can find on best sites addresses token in any depth.

The parts of best sites I'd want covered:

• What the token side of best sites looks like in practice
• How long best sites takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• Whether token is the reason best sites feels inconsistent
• How best sites treats token once you stop paying

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on best sites.

Adding Ezhookups's free tier to the pile for best sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

The token disagreement in this thread says more about best sites than any single answer.

Disagree on one point: best sites is far less platform-dependent than people here are assuming.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where best sites is concerned?

the Datenest forums is what I ended up using while working through best sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander.site solved the messaging-paywall part of best sites for me last year.

I keep Datingfly.online open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with best sites.

Both things can be true about best sites: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

I read best sites differently, because the bottleneck for me was never supply but how I was writing my profile.

Have you looked at the token side of best sites yet, or still on the basics?

For completeness, Datedesire.online sits in the same category for best sites.