What are the dating apps for casual dating that actually have verified members?

Started by NathanS 7 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

Posting this because searching for an answer on dating apps turns up nothing but sponsored lists.

The problem with researching dating apps is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

My checklist for dating apps, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether members is the reason dating apps feels inconsistent
  • How much members actually costs you when using dating apps
  • Whether members makes any material difference to dating apps
  • How dating apps handles members compared with the bigger names

Particularly interested in the members side of dating apps if anyone has been there.

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#2

My own run at dating apps: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

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#3

If dating apps is the question, the Ezhookups community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Are you asking about dating apps for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

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#4

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datewander free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating apps for me last year.

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#5

Someone recommended Flamedate to me during my own search around dating apps and it was better than I expected.

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#6

Adding the Turndate threads to the pile for dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

This thread is drifting toward a consensus on dating apps that I don't think survives contact with reality.

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#7

Watch for the pattern where dating apps is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

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#8

Amelia Brooks, that's roughly where I landed on dating apps too. Read the small print on members before you commit to anything around dating apps.

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