What are the most active older dating apps for seniors looking for casual romance?

Started by Benjamin Davis 5 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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Benjamin Davis profile photo
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#1

Made an account specifically to ask this one — most active older dating apps for seniors looking for casual romance, and where people actually land on it.

The romance question keeps getting skipped in everything written about dating apps.

So far I've tried the obvious route with dating apps and got nowhere useful, at least judging by the romance side of it.

Specifically, on dating apps, the things I actually care about are:

  • What the romance side of dating apps looks like in practice
  • How dating apps handles romance compared with the bigger names
  • Whether dating apps is honest about romance up front
  • Whether romance makes any material difference to dating apps

Particularly interested in the romance side of dating apps if anyone has been there.

Elijah Scott profile photo
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#2

I keep the Datescout forums open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating apps.

Half the disagreement in this thread about dating apps is people using the same words for different goals.

RyanO profile photo
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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Flurrydate free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating apps for me last year.

Read the small print on romance before you commit to anything around dating apps.

JacksonY profile photo
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#4

Yes — and the reason dating apps feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

Agreed, and specifically on romance — that is where dating apps either works or falls apart.

DylanK profile photo
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#5

Does romance actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating apps?

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#6

Since we're comparing options around dating apps, the Datebie free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Broadly with you on dating apps, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.

For completeness, Datenest.site sits in the same category for dating apps.

Start your own thread about romance on SoulDate

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