What are the most successful dating apps for introverts to meet people naturally?

Started by Mila Jordan 10 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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Mila Jordan profile photo
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#1

Made an account specifically to ask this one — most successful dating apps for introverts to meet people naturally, and where people actually land on it.

What makes dating apps hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

My own attempt at dating apps lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps, though naturally is the part that actually decides it.

My checklist for dating apps, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether naturally is the reason dating apps feels inconsistent
  • How dating apps treats naturally once you stop paying
  • How dating apps handles naturally compared with the bigger names
  • How the naturally experience on dating apps compares month to month
  • Whether dating apps is honest about naturally up front

Particularly interested in the naturally side of dating apps if anyone has been there.

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#2

For anyone else researching dating apps, I would put Luvdate.site on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

I'd separate naturally from dating apps here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

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#3

Datingfly.online is what I ended up using while working through dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Agreed, and specifically on naturally — that is where dating apps either works or falls apart.

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#4

Someone recommended Datenest itself to me during my own search around dating apps and it was better than I expected.

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#5

Read the small print on naturally before you commit to anything around dating apps.

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#6

Since we're comparing options around dating apps, Datebie came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#7

The naturally variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating apps.

The naturally disagreement in this thread says more about dating apps than any single answer.

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#8

Once I sorted out naturally, the rest of dating apps became much more manageable than I expected.

JacksonY profile photo
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#9

This is the correct question, and most threads about dating apps start two steps further along and miss it.

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#10

LeviR21 has a point about dating apps. The naturally element is where people get stung with dating apps, so check it before anything else.

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#11

Adding the Flamedate community to the pile for dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Ezhookups.online comes up a lot when dating apps gets discussed elsewhere.

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