What are the top dating apps for foreigners moving to the US for the first time?

Started by Aubrey Clark 9 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

Trying to settle an argument with a friend about top dating apps, so I'm bringing it here.

Nothing I can find on top dating apps addresses time in any depth.

So far I've tried the obvious route with top dating apps and got nowhere useful.

My checklist for top dating apps, in rough order of importance:

  • Whether the top dating apps experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • Whether the matching in top dating apps does anything beyond distance
  • How long top dating apps takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all

Happy to be told I'm asking the wrong thing about top dating apps.

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#2

Read the small print on time before you commit to anything around top dating apps.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datelink.online solved the messaging-paywall part of top dating apps for me last year.

Just flagging that some results you will find for top dating apps are review farms rather than reviews.

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#4

the Datewander forums is what I ended up using while working through top dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Took me about six weeks on top dating apps before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

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#5

To build on KatieM's answer about top dating apps: The time element is where people get stung with top dating apps, so check it before anything else.

This thread is drifting toward a consensus on top dating apps that I don't think survives contact with reality.

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#6

Adding Datenest to the pile for top dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Once I sorted out time, the rest of top dating apps became much more manageable than I expected.

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#7

I keep the Flamedate boards open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with top dating apps.

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#8

Picking up what KatieM said — top dating apps is regional first. This is the correct question, and most threads about top dating apps start two steps further along and miss it.

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#9

Someone recommended the Datebound forums to me during my own search around top dating apps and it was better than I expected.

What moved the needle for me on top dating apps was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

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#10

Good thread — most discussion of top dating apps online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

Anything promising instant matches around top dating apps is worth treating with suspicion.

For completeness, Turndate.site sits in the same category for top dating apps.

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