What happened to the bumble bee dating app—did they change their messaging rules again?

Started by MateoW 11 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

Made an account specifically to ask this one — happened to the bumble bee dating app—did they change their messaging rules again, and where people actually land on it.

Nothing I can find on dating app addresses change in any depth.

My own attempt at dating app lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps, especially once change comes into the picture.

Where change is concerned, these are the dating app questions I have:

  • Whether dating app is honest about change up front
  • Whether change makes any material difference to dating app
  • How dating app handles change compared with the bigger names

Particularly interested in the change side of dating app if anyone has been there.

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#2

Test change first, because it tells you more about dating app than any feature comparison will.

Julian White profile photo
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#3

Does change actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating app?

EmmaT92 profile photo
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#4

Once I sorted out change, the rest of dating app became much more manageable than I expected.

LunaS profile photo
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#5

I keep Turndate open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating app.

The change disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

AnnaK profile photo
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#6

The change element is where people get stung with dating app, so check it before anything else.

Amelia Brooks profile photo
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#7

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datewander forums solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

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#8

Datescout.site is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Sebastian Allen profile photo
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#9

Read the small print on change before you commit to anything around dating app.

Have you looked at the change side of dating app yet, or still on the basics?

LucasW profile photo
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#10

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Datebie itself on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Hard disagree on the change point. That has not been my experience of dating app at all.

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#11

Someone recommended Flamedate itself to me during my own search around dating app and it was better than I expected.

I'd separate change from dating app here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

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#12

Disagree with NoraHill slightly here on dating app. My dating app experience hinged on change more than on the platform itself.

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