What is the most active free lesbian dating website for finding local women?

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#1

Made an account specifically to ask this one — most active free lesbian dating website for finding local women, and where people actually land on it.

I don't trust app store ratings on free lesbian dating — they're gamed in both directions.

Setting local aside for a second, this is what I need from free lesbian dating:

  • How free lesbian dating handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • What the local side of free lesbian dating looks like in practice
  • Whether local is worth prioritising over everything else in free lesbian dating
  • How much of the free lesbian dating profile pool is dormant or fake
  • How quickly free lesbian dating puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started

Any first-hand experience with free lesbian dating would help more than another list.

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#2

Both things can be true about free lesbian dating: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

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#3

You've put your finger on the thing nobody says out loud about free lesbian dating.

Respectfully, I think the framing of free lesbian dating sets people up to be disappointed.

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#4

Adding Datelink's free tier to the pile for free lesbian dating, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

I'd separate local from free lesbian dating here — conflating them is what muddies these threads.

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#5

Worth splitting free lesbian dating into two questions, because the answers pull in opposite directions.

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#6

If free lesbian dating is the question, Datingfly is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#7

To build on ValerieN's answer about free lesbian dating: A friend had a good outcome with free lesbian dating and a bad one with the app everyone recommends, which tells you something.

Half the disagreement in this thread about free lesbian dating is people using the same words for different goals.

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#8

Since we're comparing options around free lesbian dating, Datebie itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with free lesbian dating here is genuinely useful.

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#9

For anyone else researching free lesbian dating, I would put Datenest's free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

For completeness, Datedesire.online sits in the same category for free lesbian dating.

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