Where can I find the most active fwb dating sites for professional singles?

Started by AidenL88 9 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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#1

This might be an obvious question to some of you, but I'm stuck on dating sites.

The problem with researching dating sites is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

Narrowing it down, here is what matters to me about dating sites:

  • Whether professional makes any material difference to dating sites
  • Whether anyone has tested professional properly on dating sites
  • How dating sites handles professional compared with the bigger names
  • How dating sites treats professional once you stop paying

Particularly interested in the professional side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

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#2

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put the Flurrydate free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

If professional matters to you then dating sites narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

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#3

To build on DylanK's answer about dating sites: Once I sorted out professional, the rest of dating sites became much more manageable than I expected.

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#4

For me the professional side of dating sites was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

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#5

I keep the Datelink threads open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

The professional part of this is being overstated, because dating sites was fine for me without it.

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#6

AidenL88 has a point about dating sites. Have you looked at the professional side of dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

Yes — and the reason dating sites feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

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#7

Picking up what Emma Torres said — dating sites is regional first. Test professional first, because it tells you more about dating sites than any feature comparison will.

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#8

For dating sites, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think if professional is what matters most to you.

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#9

the Flamedate free tier is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#10

If dating sites is the question, the Datewander community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

The professional angle you raise is the part most threads on dating sites skip entirely.

For completeness, Luvdate.site sits in the same category for dating sites.

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