Which gay cam sites have the most users?

This might be an obvious question to some of you, but I'm stuck on cam sites.

Every comparison of cam sites I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

The parts of cam sites I'd want covered:

• What happens to your data if you delete a cam sites account
• Whether messaging on cam sites works without handing over card details
• Whether the free tier on cam sites is genuinely usable or just a demo
• How cam sites handles users compared with the bigger names
• Whether users is worth prioritising over everything else in cam sites

If you've actually used something relevant to cam sites, I'd rather hear that than a recommendation you read somewhere.

What's your actual goal here — is cam sites about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

I met my partner through something adjacent to cam sites, so I'm biased, but the process was slower than I expected.

Since we're comparing options around cam sites, the Datebound threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Once I sorted out users, the rest of cam sites became much more manageable than I expected.

To build on Jack Thompson's answer about cam sites: Worth splitting cam sites into two questions, because the answers pull in opposite directions.

There is a version of cam sites that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

My own run at cam sites: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

Coming back to this one later, since the range of experience with cam sites here is genuinely useful.

Test users first, because it tells you more about cam sites than any feature comparison will.

I keep the Flamedate threads open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with cam sites.

If you are testing cam sites, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander itself solved the messaging-paywall part of cam sites for me last year.

If cam sites is the question, Datebie is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Good thread — most discussion of cam sites online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

Datenest.online comes up a lot when cam sites gets discussed elsewhere.