Why does the reddit adult friend finder community seem so divided on whether the site works?

Started by NoraHill 8 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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#1

Been circling this one for a while and I want input from people who actually use these platforms: the reddit adult friend finder community seem so divided on whether the site works.

The reviews I can find on adult friend finder never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

I've already worked through the first page of results on adult friend finder, which is why I'm asking here.

The short list of what I need from adult friend finder:

  • How much of the adult friend finder profile pool is dormant or fake
  • How adult friend finder treats works once you stop paying
  • How visible adult friend finder keeps you when you are not paying for a boost

Will report back with what I find on adult friend finder if people are interested.

Elijah Scott profile photo
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#2

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on adult friend finder are more use than any ranked list.

Isabella Cruz profile photo
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#3

There is a version of adult friend finder that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

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#4

Have you looked at the works side of adult friend finder yet, or still on the basics?

What's your actual goal here — is adult friend finder about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

Victoria King profile photo
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Posts: 649
#5

If adult friend finder is the question, the Datelink boards is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Practical suggestion on adult friend finder: give it a full two weeks of consistent use before judging anything.

Levi Robinson profile photo
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#6

Since we're comparing options around adult friend finder, the Datedesire threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

ScarlettR profile photo
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#7

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datenest free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of adult friend finder for me last year.

Elizabeth Day profile photo
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#8

Adding Datingfly to the pile for adult friend finder, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

What moved the needle for me on adult friend finder was three clear photos plus one specific opening line.

OliviaG profile photo
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#9

Hard disagree on the works point. That has not been my experience of adult friend finder at all.

Join SoulDate and add what you know about works

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