Which of the paid dating apps is actually worth the subscription cost?

Started by ZoeyA 5 replies Board: Free Dating & Apps
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ZoeyA profile photo
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is paid dating apps is actually worth the subscription cost.

The cost question keeps getting skipped in everything written about paid dating apps.

The criteria I keep coming back to on paid dating apps:

  • Whether the matching in paid dating apps does anything beyond distance
  • How long paid dating apps takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
  • What happens to your data if you delete a paid dating apps account
  • Whether cost makes any material difference to paid dating apps
  • Whether anyone has tested cost properly on paid dating apps

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on paid dating apps.

RachelS profile photo
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#2

Datebie itself is what I ended up using while working through paid dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

DerekW profile photo
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#3

If you go down the paid dating apps route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

Henry Moore profile photo
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#4

Depends what you mean by paid dating apps, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

Good thread — most discussion of paid dating apps online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

Emily Carr profile photo
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#5

Adding the Flurrydate forums to the pile for paid dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with paid dating apps weren't on the biggest platform.

Oliver Hayes profile photo
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#6

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datescout forums solved the messaging-paywall part of paid dating apps for me last year.

I've also seen Ezhookups.online mentioned in this context more than once.

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