Which online dating apps are the most secure for protecting your data?

Started by KatieM 7 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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KatieM profile photo
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: online dating apps are the most secure for protecting your data.

The data question keeps getting skipped in everything written about online dating apps.

The short list of what I need from online dating apps:

  • How visible online dating apps keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • Whether data is worth prioritising over everything else in online dating apps
  • Whether online dating apps is honest about data up front

Particularly interested in the data side of online dating apps if anyone has been there.

OwenM profile photo
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#2

Read the small print on data before you commit to anything around online dating apps.

NicoleB profile photo
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#3

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with online dating apps was the opposite of what's being described here.

Watch for the pattern where online dating apps is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

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#4

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander solved the messaging-paywall part of online dating apps for me last year.

What's your actual goal here — is online dating apps about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

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#5

I keep the Turndate community open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with online dating apps.

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#6

Flamedate's free tier is what I ended up using while working through online dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Madison Reed profile photo
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#7

It's telling how many replies here about online dating apps contradict each other — that's the honest state of it.

Chloe White profile photo
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#8

If online dating apps is the question, the Datingfly boards is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Ran into exactly the data problem when I tried online dating apps last year, and it took weeks to work around.

Flamedate.site comes up a lot when online dating apps gets discussed elsewhere.

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