Which platforms would you rank as the best iphone dating apps for iOS integration?

Started by JulianW 7 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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JulianW profile photo
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#1

I keep running into the same wall with dating apps and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

There's a real gap between how dating apps is marketed and how it behaves once you're actually using it if integration is what matters most to you.

My own attempt at dating apps lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps — integration changes that calculation completely.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring dating apps:

  • How much integration actually costs you when using dating apps
  • What the integration side of dating apps looks like in practice
  • Whether anyone has tested integration properly on dating apps

Particularly interested in the integration side of dating apps if anyone has been there.

JamesC99 profile photo
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#2

Depends heavily on integration — take that out and dating apps becomes a much easier call.

This tracks. Once integration enters the picture, dating apps stops being a simple comparison.

Julian White profile photo
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#3

Does integration actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating apps?

Mason Clark profile photo
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#4

If dating apps is the question, the Datebie free tier is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#5

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datingfly forums solved the messaging-paywall part of dating apps for me last year.

The integration disagreement in this thread says more about dating apps than any single answer.

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#6

For anyone else researching dating apps, I would put Datescout.site on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

The integration variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating apps.

ChrisV profile photo
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#7

Since we're comparing options around dating apps, the Flurrydate threads came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Read the small print on integration before you commit to anything around dating apps.

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#8

If integration matters to you then dating apps narrows fast, and if it does not you have far more room.

This is the correct question, and most threads about dating apps start two steps further along and miss it, which in the end is really a integration question.

I've also seen Datescout.site mentioned in this context more than once.

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