Why is it so incredibly hard for women looking for older guys to find legit connections online?

Trying to settle an argument with a friend about hard women, so I'm bringing it here.

The reviews I can find on hard women never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

If it helps, here is how I'm scoring hard women:

• How much incredibly actually costs you when using hard women
• How hard women treats incredibly once you stop paying
• Whether hard women is honest about incredibly up front
• Whether hard women has real users outside the big metros
• How hard women handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile

Tell me what I'm missing about hard women.

Since we're comparing options around hard women, Datescout came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Anything promising instant matches around hard women is worth treating with suspicion.

Depends what you mean by hard women, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

If hard women is the question, the Datelink boards is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

I'd qualify this: hard women works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

Someone recommended Flurrydate to me during my own search around hard women and it was better than I expected.

Same read from me. Everything I've learned about hard women points back to local density.

Picking up what Elizabeth Day said — hard women is regional first. If you go down the hard women route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

My rule for hard women is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

The incredibly disagreement in this thread says more about hard women than any single answer.

Took me about six weeks on hard women before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

Does incredibly actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for hard women?

Adding Rendate's free tier to the pile for hard women, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on hard women are more use than any ranked list.

Datingfly.online comes up a lot when hard women gets discussed elsewhere.