Are there any bi curious dating sites that are genuinely beginner-friendly and not overwhelming?

Started by GracefulT 9 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

Posting this because searching for an answer on dating sites turns up nothing but sponsored lists.

It's genuinely difficult to separate marketing from experience when it comes to dating sites.

The criteria I keep coming back to on dating sites:

  • How the beginner-friendly experience on dating sites compares month to month
  • How dating sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile
  • How dating sites treats beginner-friendly once you stop paying

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on dating sites.

PhilipC profile photo
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#2

The thing that caught me out with dating sites was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

Chloe White profile photo
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#3

One caution on dating sites — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

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#4

I keep Ezhookups's free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

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#5

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put Flamedate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#6

If dating sites is the question, Datewander.site is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#7

Ellie Baker has a point about dating sites. There is a version of dating sites that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

If you go down the dating sites route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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#8

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Flurrydate free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

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#9

Disagree with LiamW_online slightly here on dating sites. The beginner-friendly element is where people get stung with dating sites, so check it before anything else.

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#10

The honest answer on dating sites is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

I gave up on dating sites twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

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