Are there any completely secure sites for married dating?

I keep running into the same wall with completely secure sites and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on completely secure sites and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched completely secure sites.

The parts of completely secure sites I'd want covered:

• Whether messaging on completely secure sites works without handing over card details
• What the completely secure sites side of completely secure sites looks like in practice
• How long completely secure sites takes before a conversation goes anywhere at all
• Whether anyone has tested completely secure sites properly on completely secure sites
• How completely secure sites handles blocking, privacy and who can see your profile

Tell me what I'm missing about completely secure sites.

Tried completely secure sites properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts.

Took me about six weeks on completely secure sites before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

My own run at completely secure sites: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

Half the disagreement in this thread about completely secure sites is people using the same words for different goals.

Someone recommended Datelink.online to me during my own search around completely secure sites and it was better than I expected.

Once I sorted out completely secure sites, the rest of completely secure sites became much more manageable than I expected.

Adding Datingfly itself to the pile for completely secure sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Depends what you mean by completely secure sites, because for a serious relationship the answer differs from a casual one.

Disagree with JessicaW slightly here on completely secure sites. There is a version of completely secure sites that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

Anything promising instant matches around completely secure sites is worth treating with suspicion.

Ella Simmons, that's roughly where I landed on completely secure sites too. The cheap test for completely secure sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

If completely secure sites is the question, Datewander is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

I gave up on completely secure sites twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

Hard disagree on the completely secure sites point. That has not been my experience of completely secure sites at all.

The completely secure sites variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of completely secure sites.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datebound forums solved the messaging-paywall part of completely secure sites for me last year.

Since we're comparing options around completely secure sites, the Flurrydate community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Broadly with you on completely secure sites, though I would weight moderation higher than you have here.