Are there any english dating sites specifically for traditionalists?

Started by StephC 10 replies Board: Dating Sites & Reviews
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is english dating sites specifically for traditionalists.

The problem with researching dating sites is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating sites before posting.

Practically speaking, for dating sites I want to know:

  • Whether traditionalists is worth prioritising over everything else in dating sites
  • How much traditionalists actually costs you when using dating sites
  • What the traditionalists side of dating sites looks like in practice

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on dating sites.

RussellM profile photo
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#2

Someone recommended Datescout to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

TamaraJ profile photo
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#3

Disagree with StephC slightly here on dating sites. This tracks. Once traditionalists enters the picture, dating sites stops being a simple comparison.

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#4

Both things can be true about dating sites: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

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#5

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put the Datelink free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

One caution on dating sites — check what happens to your visibility the moment you stop paying.

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#6

Adding the Datewander free tier to the pile for dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

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#7

To build on ChrisV's answer about dating sites: If you go down the dating sites route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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#8

The cheap test for dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

Ran into exactly the traditionalists problem when I tried dating sites last year, and it took weeks to work around.

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#9

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, the Flamedate community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Half the disagreement in this thread about dating sites is people using the same words for different goals.

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#10

I keep Datingfly's free tier open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

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#11

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with dating sites was the opposite of what's being described here.

I've also seen Flamedate.online mentioned in this context more than once.

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