Are there any reputable dating sites for married people looking for polyamory?

Made an account specifically to ask this one — reputable dating sites for married people looking for polyamory, and where people actually land on it.

Nobody writing about dating sites seems willing to say plainly when something isn't worth the time.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating sites before posting.

Practically speaking, for dating sites I want to know:

• How much of the dating sites profile pool is dormant or fake
• Whether dating sites has real users outside the big metros
• Whether anyone has tested polyamory properly on dating sites

Genuinely open to being argued out of my assumptions on dating sites.

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, the Datingfly community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

The polyamory disagreement in this thread says more about dating sites than any single answer.

Someone recommended the Datebie forums to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

Are you asking about dating sites for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

Adding Datewander itself to the pile for dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Disagree with CliffordB slightly here on dating sites. My own run at dating sites: three months, two platforms, and one relationship that lasted about a year — small sample, but real.

If you go down the dating sites route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.