Are there any safe dating apps for 19 year olds?

Started by Oliver Hayes 8 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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Oliver Hayes profile photo
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#1

Bit of context before the question: I've been off apps for two years, and now safe dating apps is the thing I can't work out.

Every comparison of safe dating apps I've seen skips the part I care about, which is what happens after you sign up.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around safe dating apps before posting.

What would actually change my mind about safe dating apps:

  • Whether the safe dating apps experience holds up after the first fortnight
  • How visible safe dating apps keeps you when you are not paying for a boost
  • Whether olds is worth prioritising over everything else in safe dating apps
  • What happens to your data if you delete a safe dating apps account

Particularly interested in the olds side of safe dating apps if anyone has been there.

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#2

Depends heavily on olds — take that out and safe dating apps becomes a much easier call.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with safe dating apps was the opposite of what's being described here.

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#3

If safe dating apps is the question, the Datewander community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Does olds actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for safe dating apps?

Charlotte Hayes profile photo
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#4

Someone recommended Flurrydate to me during my own search around safe dating apps and it was better than I expected.

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#5

Adding Flamedate to the pile for safe dating apps, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Both things can be true about safe dating apps: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

Emma Torres profile photo
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#6

This matches what I've seen with safe dating apps, where the pool in your area matters more than any feature list.

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#7

For anyone else researching safe dating apps, I would put Datingfly.online on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Read the small print on olds before you commit to anything around safe dating apps.

Abigail Ross profile photo
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#8

To build on NathanS's answer about safe dating apps: The olds disagreement in this thread says more about safe dating apps than any single answer.

EmilyC profile photo
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#9

Agreed, and specifically on olds — that is where safe dating apps either works or falls apart.

Someone will probably mention Datewander.online before this thread is done.

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