Is the hers dating app exclusively for lesbians, or is it open to bisexual women too?

Started by EthanP 9 replies Board: Niche & Community
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#1

I keep running into the same wall with dating app and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

The problem with researching dating app is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

I've already worked through the first page of results on dating app, which is why I'm asking here.

The criteria I keep coming back to on dating app:

  • What the hers side of dating app looks like in practice
  • Whether anyone has tested hers properly on dating app
  • How much hers actually costs you when using dating app
  • How the hers experience on dating app compares month to month
  • How dating app treats hers once you stop paying

Particularly interested in the hers side of dating app if anyone has been there.

RyanO profile photo
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#2

My dating app experience hinged on hers more than on the platform itself.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where dating app is concerned?

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#3

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Flamedate on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Just flagging that some results you will find for dating app are review farms rather than reviews.

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#4

I keep Datingfly open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating app.

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#5

Depends heavily on hers — take that out and dating app becomes a much easier call.

The thing that caught me out with dating app was auto-renewal buried in a trial.

MarcusP profile photo
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#6

The hers disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

WayneT profile photo
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#7

Someone recommended the Datebie community to me during my own search around dating app and it was better than I expected.

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#8

Watch for the pattern where dating app is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

I'd qualify this: dating app works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

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#9

Picking up what WayneT said — dating app is regional first. Be careful with dating app: several platforms in this space make deleting your data much harder than creating it.

There is a version of dating app that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

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#10

If dating app is the question, the Turndate free tier is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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