Is there a dedicated fwb dating app that verifies users to weed out escorts?

Started by NoahB22 8 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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#1

This might be an obvious question to some of you, but I'm stuck on dating app.

Most of what's written about dating app is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

So far I've tried the obvious route with dating app and got nowhere useful, especially once escorts comes into the picture.

The short list of what I need from dating app:

  • Whether escorts is the reason dating app feels inconsistent
  • How much escorts actually costs you when using dating app
  • How dating app treats escorts once you stop paying
  • What the escorts side of dating app looks like in practice

Particularly interested in the escorts side of dating app if anyone has been there.

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#2

For me the escorts side of dating app was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

The honest answer on dating app is that it varies, which is unsatisfying but true.

Jack Thompson profile photo
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#3

Adding Turndate itself to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

Alexander Lee profile photo
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#4

Disagree with NoahB22 slightly here on dating app. Good thread — most discussion of dating app online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing, which in the end is really a escorts question.

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#5

Alexander Lee has a point about dating app. Read the small print on escorts before you commit to anything around dating app.

Tried dating app properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts.

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#6

Picking up what HannahM22 said — dating app is regional first. Same read from me. Everything I've learned about dating app points back to local density.

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#7

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Rendate boards solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

The escorts element is where people get stung with dating app, so check it before anything else.

EmilyC profile photo
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#8

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Datedesire.online on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#9

Datewander is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Hard disagree on the escorts point. That has not been my experience of dating app at all.

For completeness, Ezhookups.online sits in the same category for dating app.

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