Is there a dedicated male dating app that isn't solely a gay hookup site?

Started by Madison Reed 7 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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Madison Reed profile photo
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#1

Posting this because searching for an answer on dating app turns up nothing but sponsored lists.

Nothing I can find on dating app addresses solely in any depth.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched dating app — solely changes that calculation completely.

My checklist for dating app, in rough order of importance:

  • How dating app handles solely compared with the bigger names
  • Whether dating app is honest about solely up front
  • How much solely actually costs you when using dating app
  • Whether solely is the reason dating app feels inconsistent

Particularly interested in the solely side of dating app if anyone has been there.

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#2

Not affiliated with anyone, but Luvdate solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

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#3

The solely disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

Read the small print on solely before you commit to anything around dating app.

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#4

Adding the Rendate boards to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

The solely element is where people get stung with dating app, so check it before anything else.

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#5

It's telling how many replies here about dating app contradict each other — that's the honest state of it — at least where solely is concerned.

My dating app experience hinged on solely more than on the platform itself.

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#6

Since we're comparing options around dating app, Flamedate itself came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Have you looked at the solely side of dating app yet, or still on the basics?

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#7

My experience with dating app was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

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#8

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put Datebound.site on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Datebie.online comes up a lot when dating app gets discussed elsewhere.

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