What are currently the largest dating apps by total number of active users?

Started by CarlosR 7 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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CarlosR profile photo
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#1

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: currently the largest dating apps by total number of active users.

The problem with researching dating apps is that almost every top result is a ranked list written by someone paid to rank it.

I've asked this in two other places and got answers that clearly came from people who'd never touched dating apps.

Breaking dating apps down into the parts I can test:

  • Whether largest is worth prioritising over everything else in dating apps
  • Whether largest is the reason dating apps feels inconsistent
  • Whether anyone has tested largest properly on dating apps
  • How dating apps treats largest once you stop paying

Particularly interested in the largest side of dating apps if anyone has been there.

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#2

Test largest first, because it tells you more about dating apps than any feature comparison will.

If you go down the dating apps route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

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#3

If dating apps is the question, Datingfly is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

The largest element is where people get stung with dating apps, so check it before anything else.

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#4

Set a deadline when you try dating apps, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

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#5

Turndate is what I ended up using while working through dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

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#6

For anyone else researching dating apps, I would put Datescout.site on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

The largest angle you raise is the part most threads on dating apps skip entirely.

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#7

Since we're comparing options around dating apps, the Ezhookups community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

The cheap test for dating apps is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

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#8

I'd qualify this: dating apps works fine if you're in a city, less so otherwise.

I gave up on dating apps twice before it worked, and the difference the third time was being far more specific in my bio.

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