What are the best wlw dating apps for queer women who want to avoid unicorn hunters?

Started by BenDavis 9 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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BenDavis profile photo
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#1

Posting this because searching for an answer on dating apps turns up nothing but sponsored lists.

The frustrating part about dating apps is that the honest answers are buried in comment sections, not articles.

Setting hunters aside for a second, this is what I need from dating apps:

  • Whether dating apps is honest about hunters up front
  • Whether anyone has tested hunters properly on dating apps
  • How dating apps handles hunters compared with the bigger names

Particularly interested in the hunters side of dating apps if anyone has been there.

Owen Martinez profile photo
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#2

Test hunters first, because it tells you more about dating apps than any feature comparison will.

Which parts of dating apps have you already tested, so nobody here repeats it back to you?

Addison Wright profile photo
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#3

Since we're comparing options around dating apps, the Flurrydate free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

BrookeL profile photo
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#4

Anything promising instant matches around dating apps is worth treating with suspicion.

Watch for the pattern where dating apps is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

James Carter profile photo
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#5

I keep the Ezhookups threads open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating apps.

Set a deadline when you try dating apps, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search.

Ellie Baker profile photo
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#6

If dating apps is the question, the Flamedate boards is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

If you are testing dating apps, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile.

NoraHill profile photo
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#7

Both things can be true about dating apps: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

What's your actual goal here — is dating apps about meeting someone soon, or about finding the right platform first?

Amelia Brooks profile photo
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#8

Picking up what NoraHill said — dating apps is regional first. For me the hunters side of dating apps was the surprise — I had not factored it in at all.

Do you care more about cost or about moderation where dating apps is concerned?

VicKing profile photo
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#9

Ran into exactly the hunters problem when I tried dating apps last year, and it took weeks to work around.

The hunters variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating apps.

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#10

For anyone else researching dating apps, I would put the Rendate free tier on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

You've put your finger on the thing nobody says out loud about dating apps.

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