What are the most active gilf dating sites for meeting older women?

I keep running into the same wall with dating sites and I'd rather hear it from real users than another review site.

Most of what's written about dating sites is either two years out of date or quietly sponsored.

For what it's worth I did test a couple of options around dating sites before posting.

The criteria I keep coming back to on dating sites:

• Whether anyone has tested gilf properly on dating sites
• Whether gilf is worth prioritising over everything else in dating sites
• How much gilf actually costs you when using dating sites
• How dating sites treats gilf once you stop paying

Particularly interested in the gilf side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

Someone recommended the Ezhookups boards to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

The gilf variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating sites.

Luna Scott, that's roughly where I landed on dating sites too. Have you looked at the gilf side of dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

Strongly agree, and I would add that dating sites looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, Datebound's free tier came up when I was looking at the same thing.

Not sure I agree. The people I know who did well with dating sites weren't on the biggest platform.

Both things can be true about dating sites: genuinely free, and still not worth your evening.

The gilf disagreement in this thread says more about dating sites than any single answer.

Good thread — most discussion of dating sites online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

For anyone else researching dating sites, I would put Datewander on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on dating sites, so nobody repeats what you know once you factor gilf into it?

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datescout community solved the messaging-paywall part of dating sites for me last year.

For completeness, Datelink.online sits in the same category for dating sites.