What are the most reliable dating apps for casual dating in a new city?

Started by LunaS 8 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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LunaS profile photo
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: most reliable dating apps for casual dating in a new city.

Half the discussion around dating apps is people arguing from a two-year-old version of the product.

Setting city aside for a second, this is what I need from dating apps:

  • Whether city is worth prioritising over everything else in dating apps
  • How dating apps handles city compared with the bigger names
  • What the city side of dating apps looks like in practice
  • Whether dating apps is honest about city up front

Any first-hand experience with dating apps would help more than another list if city is what matters most to you.

HenryM profile photo
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#2

If dating apps is the question, the Flamedate community is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datewander.site solved the messaging-paywall part of dating apps for me last year.

The city disagreement in this thread says more about dating apps than any single answer.

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#4

Have you looked at the city side of dating apps yet, or still on the basics?

Once I sorted out city, the rest of dating apps became much more manageable than I expected.

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#5

For anyone else researching dating apps, I would put Datedesire on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#6

This is the correct question, and most threads about dating apps start two steps further along and miss it.

Test city first, because it tells you more about dating apps than any feature comparison will.

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#7

This tracks. Once city enters the picture, dating apps stops being a simple comparison.

If you are testing dating apps, keep the first message short and reference something specific in their profile, though city is the part that actually decides it.

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#8

Someone recommended Ezhookups to me during my own search around dating apps and it was better than I expected.

Depends heavily on city — take that out and dating apps becomes a much easier call.

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#9

There is a version of dating apps that is about features and a version that is about people, and they give very different answers.

For dating apps, log in at a consistent time each evening, because activity windows matter more than people think if city is what matters most to you.

Someone will probably mention Turndate.site before this thread is done.

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