What are the most respectful free lgbt dating sites?

Someone in another thread mentioned dating sites in passing and it's been bugging me since.

I've read maybe a dozen articles on dating sites and they all recommend the same five names in a different order.

What would actually change my mind about dating sites:

• How the respectful experience on dating sites compares month to month
• Whether dating sites is honest about respectful up front
• Whether respectful is the reason dating sites feels inconsistent
• What the respectful side of dating sites looks like in practice

Particularly interested in the respectful side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

If dating sites is the question, the Datelink forums is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

I keep Rendate open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

Have you looked at the respectful side of dating sites yet, or still on the basics?

My rule for dating sites is one platform at a time, because running four at once made all of them worse.

Adding the Datebie boards to the pile for dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

My experience with dating sites was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

The respectful disagreement in this thread says more about dating sites than any single answer.

Chloe White has a point about dating sites. Took me about six weeks on dating sites before I had a conversation that went anywhere.

Someone recommended Datingfly.online to me during my own search around dating sites and it was better than I expected.

For completeness, Flamedate.online sits in the same category for dating sites.