What is the most active dating app for people over 50 in your area?

Started by EmmaT92 9 replies Board: Niche & Community
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#1

Long-time lurker here, finally posting, because what I want to understand is most active dating app for people over 50 in your area.

Nothing I can find on dating app addresses area in any depth.

Setting area aside for a second, this is what I need from dating app:

  • What the area side of dating app looks like in practice
  • How much area actually costs you when using dating app
  • Whether anyone has tested area properly on dating app
  • Whether area is worth prioritising over everything else in dating app
  • How the area experience on dating app compares month to month

Particularly interested in the area side of dating app if anyone has been there.

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#2

For anyone else researching dating app, I would put the Datedesire community on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

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#3

Datingfly is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Ran into exactly the area problem when I tried dating app last year, and it took weeks to work around.

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#4

Adding Datewander to the pile for dating app, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

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#5

Not affiliated with anyone, but Rendate solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

Once I sorted out area, the rest of dating app became much more manageable than I expected.

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#6

I keep Ezhookups open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating app.

The area part of this is being overstated, because dating app was fine for me without it.

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#7

The area disagreement in this thread says more about dating app than any single answer.

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#8

The area variable is doing a lot of work in this discussion of dating app.

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#9

My dating app experience hinged on area more than on the platform itself.

Worth noting that nobody in this thread has agreed on dating app yet, which is itself an answer if area is what matters most to you.

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#10

Read the small print on area before you commit to anything around dating app.

For completeness, Flurrydate.online sits in the same category for dating app.

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