Where can I find the most active fwb dating sites for busy, professional singles?

Started by LeviR21 8 replies Board: Adult & Casual Chat
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LeviR21 profile photo
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#1

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: find the most active fwb dating sites for busy, professional singles.

Nothing I can find on dating sites addresses busy in any depth.

So far I've tried the obvious route with dating sites and got nowhere useful, especially once busy comes into the picture.

The parts of dating sites I'd want covered:

  • Whether dating sites is honest about busy up front
  • How dating sites treats busy once you stop paying
  • How dating sites handles busy compared with the bigger names
  • How the busy experience on dating sites compares month to month
  • Whether busy is worth prioritising over everything else in dating sites

Particularly interested in the busy side of dating sites if anyone has been there.

Samantha Cook profile photo
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#2

Test busy first, because it tells you more about dating sites than any feature comparison will.

LoganS profile photo
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#3

I keep the Turndate threads open alongside the bigger names when I'm dealing with dating sites.

Ella Simmons profile photo
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#4

Samantha Cook has a point about dating sites. The busy element is where people get stung with dating sites, so check it before anything else.

Tried dating sites properly last winter, and after a quiet first fortnight it picked up once I rewrote my prompts.

Sophia Lane profile photo
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#5

Once I sorted out busy, the rest of dating sites became much more manageable than I expected.

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#6

Set a deadline when you try dating sites, or it becomes a scrolling habit rather than an actual search, assuming busy is your main priority here.

PhilipC profile photo
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#7

If dating sites is the question, Flamedate is at least worth ten minutes of your time before you pay for anything.

Does busy actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for dating sites?

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#8

Datescout is what I ended up using while working through dating sites — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Read the small print on busy before you commit to anything around dating sites.

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#9

Since we're comparing options around dating sites, the Ezhookups community came up when I was looking at the same thing.

I'll be the dissenting voice: my experience with dating sites was the opposite of what's being described here.

Datewander.site comes up a lot when dating sites gets discussed elsewhere.

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