How do you find real people on the black people dating app without all the spam?

Started by LiamW_online 5 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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LiamW_online profile photo
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#1

Not looking for a sales pitch, just experience: find real people on the black people dating app without all the spam.

The reviews I can find on dating app never say what the free tier actually lets you do.

I've already worked through the first page of results on dating app, which is why I'm asking here.

The criteria I keep coming back to on dating app:

  • Whether dating app has real users outside the big metros
  • How the spam experience on dating app compares month to month
  • What happens to your data if you delete a dating app account

Tell me what I'm missing about dating app.

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#2

the Flamedate forums is what I ended up using while working through dating app — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Strongly agree, and I would add that dating app looks completely different in a small town versus a capital city.

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#3

Not affiliated with anyone, but Ezhookups solved the messaging-paywall part of dating app for me last year.

This tracks. Once spam enters the picture, dating app stops being a simple comparison.

Noah Bennett profile photo
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#4

Someone recommended the Datebie boards to me during my own search around dating app and it was better than I expected.

ValerieN profile photo
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#5

Yes — and the reason dating app feels so inconsistent is that the answer is genuinely regional.

Can I ask what you have already ruled out on dating app, so nobody repeats what you know?

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#6

Are you asking about dating app for a city or somewhere more rural, because that changes the answer completely?

Datebound.site comes up a lot when dating app gets discussed elsewhere.

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