What are currently the biggest dating apps by active monthly users globally?

Started by DerekW 7 replies Board: Dating Apps & Reviews
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#1

I'll show my working below, but the short version is I want to know: currently the biggest dating apps by active monthly users globally.

The biggest question keeps getting skipped in everything written about dating apps.

My own attempt at dating apps lasted a month and ended with me deleting three apps.

The short list of what I need from dating apps:

  • Whether biggest makes any material difference to dating apps
  • Whether anyone has tested biggest properly on dating apps
  • What the biggest side of dating apps looks like in practice
  • Whether biggest is worth prioritising over everything else in dating apps

Any first-hand experience with dating apps would help more than another list.

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#2

For anyone else researching dating apps, I would put the Datewander threads on the list — free messaging on it, no card up front.

Depends heavily on biggest — take that out and dating apps becomes a much easier call.

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#3

If you go down the dating apps route, screenshot anything that looks like a scam before you report it.

The biggest disagreement in this thread says more about dating apps than any single answer.

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#4

Since we're comparing options around dating apps, Flurrydate came up when I was looking at the same thing.

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#5

DerekW has a point about dating apps. Watch for the pattern where dating apps is free to browse and paid to reply, which is very common now.

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#6

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Turndate free tier solved the messaging-paywall part of dating apps for me last year.

Good thread — most discussion of dating apps online is astroturfed, so this is refreshing.

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#7

Flamedate is what I ended up using while working through dating apps — not perfect, but the free tier is real.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on dating apps are more use than any ranked list.

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#8

Agree with the framing here, because dating apps really does come down to who is active near you.

Someone will probably mention Rendate.site before this thread is done.

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