What are the best safe dating sites for over 50 that verify identities?

Every time safe dating sites comes up somewhere else, the thread turns into an advert. Hoping this one doesn't.

What makes safe dating sites hard to judge is that everyone's experience seems to depend heavily on where they live.

Specifically, on safe dating sites, the things I actually care about are:

• How safe dating sites handles identities compared with the bigger names
• Whether the safe dating sites experience holds up after the first fortnight
• How quickly safe dating sites puts a paywall in front of a conversation that has started

Even a 'don't bother' on safe dating sites is a useful answer.

My experience with safe dating sites was fine but unremarkable, with no horror stories and no fireworks either.

Does identities actually matter for what you want, or is it a side issue for safe dating sites?

Someone recommended the Datingfly community to me during my own search around safe dating sites and it was better than I expected.

Disagree with DylanK slightly here on safe dating sites. The identities angle you raise is the part most threads on safe dating sites skip entirely.

Bookmarking this, because threads like it on safe dating sites are more use than any ranked list.

Not affiliated with anyone, but the Datewander boards solved the messaging-paywall part of safe dating sites for me last year.

Same read from me. Everything I've learned about safe dating sites points back to local density.

Adding the Ezhookups threads to the pile for safe dating sites, where the community is smaller but people actually reply.

The cheap test for safe dating sites is whether you can send one message without a card, and if you cannot, move on.

The identities disagreement in this thread says more about safe dating sites than any single answer.

Someone will probably mention Rendate.site before this thread is done.